.A time to be born a time to die.

I heard from D today,he is trying to get his head round all the is going on for him.Wondering why it is all happening now.

Mum and Dad both ill ,him in so far away..

He hopes to come visit us when he gets home ,and he has had time to sort his head out.
I feel so much for him,for all the children.

I sent him this poem,a song really that I know from when when I was young.

I find it goes round and round in my head.

As I get older; I get it more.

When we are young we want it to be summer all the time.

  For us humans there is not much growth if it is all sunshine, we need the trials and tribulations ,we grow through them.

All sunshine makes a desert.

What does not kill is makes us strong.Tis true.


Turn Turn Turn

To Everything
There is a season
And a time to every purpose, under Heaven

A time to be born, a time to die
A time to plant, a time to reap
A time to kill, a time to heal
A time to laugh, a time to weep

To Everything
There is a season
And a time to every purpose, under Heaven

A time to build up,a time to break down
A time to dance, a time to mourn
A time to cast away stones, a time to gather stones together

To Everything
There is a season
And a time to every purpose, under Heaven

A time of love, a time of hate
A time of war, a time of peace
A time you may embrace, a time to refrain from embracing

To Everything
There is a season
And a time to every purpose, under Heaven

A time to gain, a time to lose
A time to reap, a time to sew
A time for love, a time for hate
A time for peace, I swear it's not too late.


I am very calm.Am I in denial,or am I at peace with what ever happens. Time will tell. I am getting used to loss. The thing is I don't think we are going to lose John.I believe in the medicine and the doctors are giving me confidence.
Conversely John will die I will die.We are all going to die.

"No matter wht you do Cosmo, you  are going to die" Moonstruck.

Someone said we should all think about death for 15 minutes every day then we won't be afraid of it.

that is a bit much , but from time to time yes I agree.We need to address death. I watched my dad going through all the stages untill he came to terms with it...it was a wonderful thing to witness, a person who has come to terms with his life and the fact of his death.

Star Pa xxxx an inspiration to me and many others I am sure.Love you always x