better now,what to do with all this money?

I have been working today and I feel physically and emotionally better now. I had a tummy bug in the night and it was very draining.
John has gone to London and Cambridge till Friday and I am having a week to myself ( just seeing a few people this week)
Sandra and I are in constant contact, talking about wedding plans.It is fun. We both hope to be lighthearted on the wedding weekend.
I am happy to have been able to pay for hotel and travel to Glasgow for the kids. I am a bit bewildered by having this money,although the bulk of it has not even cleared yet.
I feel a bit worried about the responsibility,will I spend it wisely? will I save most of it and keep adding to the savings. I would like to have a good amount when I am 70. I think by then I may want to stop Counselling.
I would like to do a tour of Scotland with John, maybe spring or autumn 2013.
I promised Andrew Lucy and Philip I would give them a night in Inveraray at some point.
And of course my IPAD ,Kindle? iphone? and bike. (do I need a kindle and an iphone if I have an ipad?
Apart from that I have no plans for the money, just like to know it is there if and when we need it.

Dad you had all that money, and you were wise with it .I want to be like that too. I fear I am a bit more generous than you and I know need to curb that sometimes. Thanks pa,it is a challenge ,one I have confidence that I will rise to it.